As Tommy Lee Jones famously asked another actor in The Fugitive, “Do you want to change your bullshit story?”
Ted Gioia offers 8 techniques for judging someone's character (even, perhaps most usefully, your own). "See how they treat service workers. Their true self comes to the forefront."
My 8 Best Techniques for Evaluating Character
Vsevolod Garshin, Russia’s most underrated writer, was both an incorrigible idealist and a skeptic paralyzed by doubt ... Garshin