All truth passes through three stages:
First, it is ridiculed.
Second, it is violently opposed.
Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."
-- Arthur Schopenhauer
Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing; a confusion of the real with the ideal never goes unpunished.
- Goethe
The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it Woody Allen
Art of Living & Literature Across Frontiers: Marriage is a three ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring and suffering
It was only in the last few weeks I developed the spine to look myself deeply and passionately in the eye if I fail at something.
Why is it that our relationship fail? Divorce does not discriminate. No matter who you are or where you live it is fair to say you will know someone who has divorced. For 21 years friends wondered how Lauren and I stay together, with so many divorces around us. And a good friend of ours last year observed, 'It's simple. They have a lot in common. They're both in love with the same (wo)man ... (mmmwwaaaa vs. Hyacinth ;-)' This goes a long way, I think, toward explaining why I have discovered emotional minefields, motivational swamps and creative wildernesses ... In a strange way, Clint Eastwood sentiment rings deep inside me: ‘There's only one way to have a happy marriage and as soon as I learn what it is I'll get married again.’
• Many men find themselves beginning a new life as separated fathers with little or no support from friends or family Obstacles are things that a person sees when they take their mind off their goal ; The only ground for divorce in Australia is irretrievable breakdown of marriage. This is shown by separation for a period of 12 months with no prospect of reconciliation. Grounds for Divorce]
• · Separation is a stressful time for individuals and families. Separation and divorce are steps of great significance. If you believe your relationship has fundamental and insoluble problems, and you wish to discuss the best way forward with someone else, remember that there are a wide range of non-Government services available to you You should make your own assessment of their suitability for your needs ; Humpty Dumpty’s “When I use a word it means just what I choose,” will hardly do, Alice thought. Antonin Scalia has to agree Law & Language
• · · 21 ways to guide your children through divorce Allow your children, as well as yourself; time to adjust to the new order of things. Expect erratic outbursts of temper, tears and periods of tiredness. Your children are probably experiencing a whole range of emotions, from fear through to anger, and this is their way of expressing their feelings Feelings ; Dying for Love
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• · · · · Forget about loving thy neighbour. Most people don't even trust them. A matter of trust ; Does a monument to the civil rights struggle at Ole Miss need to be Positive?
• · · · · · Former Labor Health Minister Neal Blewett has broken ranks with ALP insiders to sing the praises of The Latham Diaries in this month's Australian Book Review From Colossus to Galapagos Duck ; Richard Posner says he’s like his cat: “cold, furtive, callous, snobbish, selfish, and playful, but with a streak of cruelty Judging Richard
