Saturday, November 14, 2026

What have you learned that’s now outdated?

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What have you learned that’s now outdated?

Enter the year you graduated high school. Retrocodex: Stuff You Learned Wrong is a collection of commonly taught facts that aren’t actually true. Browse and discuss 100+ commonly taught disproven, outdated facts with sources. Follow other users from your same state or country to see what teachers and parents from your region got wrong growing up.


That reflection below captures the massive cultural and technological shifts experienced by Boomers, Generation X and older Millennials over the last four decades. It is a widely shared viral post that resonates with millions of people because it contrasts how quickly the world has changed with how recent those eras still feel:


I've watched Princess Diana pass away.

I've watched Michael Jackson pass away.

I've watched Betty White pass away.

I've watched Queen Elizabeth pass away.

I've watched Dolly Parton pass away.

I was alive when 9/11 happened.

I witnessed the tearing of the Iron Curtain

I've lived through a global pandemic.

I witnessed the rise of the internet.

I watched records become cassettes, cassettes become CDs, and CDs become streaming.

VHS became DVDS, then DVDS became Netflix.

Landlines became mobiles...

then somehow our phones became cameras, maps, computers, and basically our entire lives.

I remember the life before Google, before social media, before Amazon showed up at your door the next day.

We didn't just live through a few decades, we lived through an entire world changing.

And somehow, the 80s still feel like they were only 10 years ago.



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Malski’s Stresa on Lake Maggiore


This holiday spot is better than Lake Como. 
Here’s why 

The resort town of Stresa on Lake Maggiore is the perfect Italian base for travellers seeking serenity, with a touch of history and island-hopping.

It’s summer on the Italian lakes and the chorus of celebs, content creators and influencers is in full song: “C’mon, baby, do the Lake Como-motion … come on, come on, do the Como-motion with me.”

Last year a record 5.9 million people descended on Lake Como, the smallest of Italy’s three major northern lakes, according to the governmental ferries service, Gestione Governativa Navigazione Laghi (GGNL). Visitor numbers this year, which notably included Kim Kardashian and Formula 1 driver Lewis Hamilton going out for a spin on a private motorboat in September, are expected to be much higher.

Grand Hotel des Iles Borromées. Alamy 
The Ernest Hemingway Bar at the Grand Hotel des Iles Borromées. Alamy
And how’s the serenity? Well, it’s not what it used to be. “Como’s too crowded,” complained an American woman as we chatted on a train bound for Stresa on Lake Maggiore. A regular visitor to Italy, she was hoping Stresa would be calmer. “It is,” I assured her. “The non-stress levels at Stresa have to be seen to be believed.” 
Lake Maggiore is roughly one and a half times the size of Lake Como but gets only half of its visitors – 2.9 million in 2025 according to GGNL. I had visited Stresa briefly just 10 days before and liked it so much that I just had to go back, sacrificing holiday time in Switzerland and France to do so.
Stresa became fashionable in the Belle Époque era, particularly with the opening of the Grand Hotel des Iles Borromées in 1863. Notable guests over the years include Princess Margaret, Clark Gable, Rockefeller, Charlie Chaplin, and Winston Churchill and Clementine Hozier on their honeymoon.
Ernest Hemingway spent a week at the hotel in 1918 while recovering from leg wounds he sustained as an American Red Cross ambulance driver on the Italian front. He visited the nearby Borromean Islands, played a lot of billiards and consumed many martinis. His experiences are memorably reflected in his novel A Farewell to Arms, published a decade later.
Stresa ferry times. Alamy 
I would have loved to have done the same – my writing sparkles more with martinis – but it would have been A Farewell to All My Cash. A night in the huge Hemingway Suite at the hotel can cost upwards of $4500. But visitors can savour the atmosphere over drinks or meals at its restaurant and bars; likewise at the other splendid hotels that line Stresa’s scenic esplanade, such as the Regina Palace, Villa e Palazzo Aminta and Grand Hotel Bristol.
Stresa is compact and enjoyably walkable – its population is just 4500 compared to about 83,000 in Como. It’s best to ditch your map and wander up alleys that look interesting. Most of them do! Cafes and restaurants abound.
If I had to recommend one, I’d pick Ristorante Pizzeria Mamma Mia in Via Principe Tommaso. The lamb cutlets were delicious and its panna cotta with red berries was the best I had in Italy. One night the restaurant was quiet and intimate; on another everyone was singing ABBA’s Mamma Mia. Perhaps they’d had too many martinis and spritzes.
The main reason to visit Stresa, though, is to walk the gangways to heaven. Get your ticket, the Biglietto di liberacircolazione, at the ferry terminal just across the esplanade from Stresa’s cute town hall. It’s an all-day, island-hopping, free-circulation ticket offering access to the three main Borromean Islands – Isola Madre, Isola Bella and Isola dei Pescatori (also known as Isola Superiore) – as well as nearby pretty lakeside towns such as Baveno and Pallanza. And it’s a bargain at €16.90 (about $27).
The Borromeos were and still are a fabulously wealthy family who have owned the Isola Madre and Isola Bella for hundreds of years. During that time, they have entertained the likes of Queen Victoria, Prince Charles and Diana, and Emperor Leopold II of Habsburg-Lorraine.
The baroque-style gardens of Palazzo Borromeo on Isola Bella. Getty Images
Napoleon’s Room with the bed he slept in when visiting Palazzo Borromeo. Alamy 
Napoleon Bonaparte caused a stink there in 1797 when he invited himself over with his wife Josephine and an entourage of about 60 people. You can view the actual bed that Napoleon and Josephine slept in on a tour of the Palazzo Borromeo on Isola Bella. The bedposts and bedside curtains would dwarf adult giraffes!
There are gardens-only and palace-and-gardens ticket options for each island, but you’ll save €10 by getting a combined Isola Madre and Isola Bella see-everything ticket. Some people prefer the more restrained Madre, but I’m all for Bella’s wow factor. The gardens – 10 cascading terraces adorned with multiple statues – are among the best you’ll ever see. Inside and out, there are eye-openers everywhere.
Borromeo Villa chapel garden on Isola Madre. Alamy
Beautiful gardens of Isola Madre. Getty Images
That said, on Madre, where the residence has been converted into a museum, I was gobsmacked by its puppet theatre collection, one of the best in the world. Spread over three rooms, it features a fantastic array of puppets, sets and clever mechanical devices such as a cloud machine. Much of it is attributed to Alessandro Sanquirico, who in the 1830s was set designer at the Teatro alla Scala (La Scala) in Milan.
Until this point I had imagined the Borromeo family as dour merchant bankers: now I envisaged them as the Andrew Lloyd Webber and Tim Rice of their day. They must have put on some amazing shows and parties.
Isola dei Pescatori (Fishermen’s Island), the only isle on the lake with a permanent resident population, is as laid-back as can be. It’s just 350 metres long by 100 metres wide, but packs in enough around its little alleyways and edges: cafés, restaurants, bars, hotels, souvenir stalls and fashion racks. The sunrises and sunsets, and the stillness of the water once the ferries and water taxis have vanished, are mesmerising. 
Puppet theatre at the Borromeo Palace on Isola Madre. Alamy
I’m tempted to say Stresa is perfect but it has a flaw, albeit one that’s evident only if you arrive by train: its tiny railway station desperately needs a makeover. The ticket window seems perpetually shut, but the café/bar stays steadfastly open. That’s Italy for you. But here at least you can still look around, raise your glass and say, “How’s the serenity?”
The writer flew to Italy and stayed in Stresa at his own expense. On Isola dei Pescatori he was a guest of On Foot Holidays.
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Friday, November 13, 2026

Fold Epic Paper Airplanes

Catherine Martin and Lilly Luhrmann on their shared passions for fashion, reading – and resilience

Oscar-winning Australian costume designer Catherine Martin and daughter Lilly Luhrmann share a love of cooking.
“My mum is French and taught me how to make crepes. It’s a tradition I carried on as a mother and would make them every weekend for the kids,” says Catherine.
Restaurants are also a passion. Catherine worked on the interiors of medieval-inspired New York restaurant Monsieur with husband Baz Luhrmann.
Catherine, who is about to start work with Baz on new film Joan of Arc, and Lilly, a Gold Coast-based literary tastemaker, were in Melbourne on Thursday as special guests of Landmark by Lexus on Oaks Day, where they enjoyed a steak frites at the Entrecote restaurant within the lavish trackside pavilion. 

They took some time out between races to share their food, drink and home cooking favourites.


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